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13th stepper

13th stepper noun: a more experienced member of a 12 step recovery program who targets newcomers for romantic or sexual relationships.

Noun

13th stepper (plural 13th steppers)

  1. (slang) A more experienced member of a 12 step recovery program who targets newcomers for romantic or sexual relationships.
    • One of Boston AA’s stronger suggestions is that newcomers avoid all romantic relationships for at least a year. So somebody with some sober time predating and trying to seduce a newcomer is almost tantamount to rape, is the Boston consensus. Not that it isn’t done. But the ones that do it never...1996, Wallace, David Foster, Infinite Jest
    • Amanda Rollins: You went undercover to an A. A. meeting?[…]
      Nick Amaro: Rollins, look. I went out with some of the other guys from the group. All right, they said Nate preys on women new to the program. They call him a "13th-stepper".2013, “Rapist Anonymous”, in Law & Order: Special Victims Unit

Forms of 13th stepper

plural13th steppers

Questions about 13th stepper

What does 13th stepper mean?
13th stepper means a more experienced member of a 12 step recovery program who targets newcomers for romantic or sexual relationships.
What part of speech is 13th stepper?
13th stepper is a noun.
What is the plural of 13th stepper?
The plural of 13th stepper is 13th steppers.

Words near 13th stepper in the dictionary

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  2. 13th months
  3. 13th reason
  4. 13th reason why
  5. 13th step
  6. 13th stepper
  7. 13th steppers
  8. 13th-grader
  9. 13th-graders
  10. 13ᵗʰ
  11. 14

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