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get by the balls

get by the balls verb: to have complete control over someone, especially of a woman abusing a man's infatuation with her.

Verb

get by the balls (third-person singular simple present gets by the balls, present participle getting by the balls, simple past got by the balls, past participle (UK) got by the balls or (US) gotten by the balls)

  1. (slang, vulgar) To have complete control over someone, especially of a woman abusing a man's infatuation with her.
    • Too bad she's got you by the balls.1974, Rolling Stones, Short And Curlies
    • If you’ve got them by the balls, their hearts and minds will follow.
    Synonyms:
    have by the short and curlies

Synonyms of get by the balls

Forms of get by the balls

third-person singular presentgets by the balls
present participlegetting by the balls
pastgot by the balls
past participle UKgot by the balls
past participle USgotten by the balls

Origin of get by the balls

See balls (“testicles”).

Questions about get by the balls

What does get by the balls mean?
Get by the balls means to have complete control over someone, especially of a woman abusing a man's infatuation with her.
What part of speech is get by the balls?
Get by the balls is a verb.
What is the past tense of get by the balls?
The past tense of get by the balls is got by the balls.

Words near get by the balls in the dictionary

  1. get blood from a turnip
  2. get blood out of a stone
  3. get blood out of a turnip
  4. get busy
  5. get by
  6. get by the balls
  7. get by with
  8. get changed
  9. get cold feet
  10. get cracking
  11. get down

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