invidious

Adjective

invidious (comparative more invidious, superlative most invidious)

1. Causing ill will, envy, or offense.
   • To think highly of ourselves in comparison with others, to assume by our own authority that precedence which none is willing to grant, must be always invidious and offensive; […]1753 August 14, Samuel Johnson [et al.], “Number LXXXI. TUESDAY, August 14, 1753.”, in The Adventurer, volume II, London: […] J[ohn] Payne, […], published 1754, →OCLC, page 62
   • ‘I didn’t make use of the word in any invidious sense, ma’am,’ replied Mr. Benjamin Allen, growing somewhat uneasy on his own account.1836 March – 1837 October, Charles Dickens, chapter XXXII, in The Posthumous Papers of the Pickwick Club, London: Chapman and Hall, […], published 1837, →OCLC
2. Offensively or unfairly discriminating.
   • But the rich man—not to make any invidious comparison—is always sold to the institution which makes him rich.1854 August 9, Henry D[avid] Thoreau, Walden; or, Life in the Woods, Boston, Mass.: Ticknor and Fields, →OCLC
   • There were so many drinks to be drunk, and as the warm magic poured through our veins and mellowed our voices and affections we knew it was no time to make invidious distinctions—to drink with this shipmate and to decline to drink with that shipmate.1913 August, Jack London, chapter XVII, in John Barleycorn, New York, N.Y.: The Century Co., →OCLC
3. (obsolete) Envious, jealous.
4. Detestable, hateful, or odious. (Often used in cases of perceived unfairness, or when facing a difficult situation or choice — especially in the phrase invidious position.)
   • The sales representative was in an invidious position: she could either get to the meeting on time but with nothing to show the client, or pick up the product samples while the client was kept waiting. Neither one would make a favourable impression!