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wear the trousers

wear the trousers verb: typically of a woman, to be the dominant partner in a relationship.

Verb

wear the trousers (third-person singular simple present wears the trousers, present participle wearing the trousers, simple past wore the trousers, past participle worn the trousers)

  1. (UK, idiomatic) Typically of a woman, to be the dominant partner in a relationship.
    • As long as I remember who's wearing the trousers / I hope he never lets me down again1987, Martin L. Gore, “Never Let Me Down Again”, in Music for the Masses, performed by Depeche Mode
    • His mother wore the trousers, and father, a gentle man who worked in local government, was not ambitious enough for her.1988, John Rowan, Windy Dryden, Innovative Therapy in Britain, page 246
  2. Used other than figuratively or idiomatically: see wear, trouser.

Synonyms of wear the trousers

Forms of wear the trousers

third-person singular presentwears the trousers
present participlewearing the trousers
pastwore the trousers
past participleworn the trousers

Questions about wear the trousers

What does wear the trousers mean?
Wear the trousers means typically of a woman, to be the dominant partner in a relationship.
What part of speech is wear the trousers?
Wear the trousers is a verb.
What is the past tense of wear the trousers?
The past tense of wear the trousers is wore the trousers.

Words near wear the trousers in the dictionary

  1. wear out one's welcome
  2. wear rose-colored glasses
  3. wear sackcloth and ashes
  4. wear the breeches
  5. wear the pants
  6. wear the trousers
  7. wear thin
  8. wear through
  9. wear too many hats
  10. wear two hats
  11. wear up

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