guy codes

Proper noun

guy code (plural guy codes)

1. An informal set of rules for how to be a man and interact with other men.
   • Kimmel argues that men must confront their temptation toward silence, especially in the face of other men's violence. This culture of silence is what scaffolds the "guy code."2019 August 23, Gregory Baker, Disaffiliating Ministry: Spiritual Growth, Gender, and Campus Ministry, Rowman & Littlefield, →ISBN, page 22
2. One of these rules; in particular, the rule according to which a man should not get involved with a woman if his friend has previously shown interest in her.
   • Xander: "But thanks. Thanks for your help." He stomps off. Willow and Buffy share a look. Buffy: "I think I just violated the guy code. Big time." Willow: "Poor Xander. Boys are so fragile."2001, Gertrude Pocket, The Script Book Season, Pocket Pulse, →ISBN, page 10